“You have ke fu ming (the fate of a widow or divorcee).”“Your 1st child will ke lao dou (cause death to the father).”
“You are here to pay your debt this life due to bad karna in previous life.”
“You can’t live pass age 59.”
“Your daughter in law is a sao ba xing (jinx) and will bring your family luck down.”
Harsh words? Or hard truth?
Are there really such catastrophic events that could be diagnosed from a person’s destiny chart?
Well, although I am reluctant to say this, a person’s Bazi can indeed point out whether he or she will end up divorce, whether the affinity with the father is poor, the up and down cycles, acrimonious relationship with children and etc.
Nevertheless, in my opinion, we can approach it in a less intimidating manner and we should objectively discuss with our clients how to address those challenges in life – rather than just leaving it as it is.
Afterall, in this modern society of 21st century, we have more readily available resources to guide us and even tide us over any life crisis compare to the olden days.
When I was a teenager, I was a “victim” of such curt and cold remarks of some fortune tellers.
One may say this is sometimes the style of consult for most traditional practitioners.
However, it is often not easy to swallow and digest those opinions being dished out in such a less empathetic tone.
Worse, you are left hanging there to accept your fate.
I was not too happy. The rebel in me then decided I must pick up the knowledge of “suan ming” or fate calculation to find out if our fate is really cast-in-stone.
As I go deeper into Bazi study, I realised that, for example:
- “ke fu ming” for women sometimes simply means she is too strong headed and always not willing to give in to the husband whenever there is an argument. This is due to a strong presence of output stars. As you probably know, in olden days and in fact even until today, certain cultures still require women to be more submissive and obedient to their husband.
- “ke lao dou” implies the child is rebellious (in the eye of the parents) because the child often needs explanations and justifications whenever the parents forbid him or her from doing certain things. In traditional Chinese family, a child is not supposed to question the parents. This can be read from the children palace of a bazi chart.
- “sao ba xing” for women again can mean the bazi spouse palace contains undesirable stars like Hurting Officer or the lady has very strong mix of Direct Officer and 7 Killing stars. It is deemed that such women are promiscuous and can bring disharmony to the family.
You see, now you may start to realise that a same bazi chart can have different interpretations and if we could spend some time to explain to our clients, he or she can see things from a better perspective.
So, when the old master told to your face that you would die before age 59, that was because he saw a serious direct-clash coming to your bazi from your luck cycle that could lead to a fatal heart attack.
With medical advancement today, can you tell me what can you do to prevent it or treat it?
Of course, you know.
“You have ke fu ming (the fate of a widow or divorcee).”
“Your 1st child will ke lao dou (cause death to the father).”
“You are here to pay your debt this life due to bad karna in previous life.”
“You can’t live pass age 59.”
“Your daughter in law is a sao ba xing (jinx) and will bring your family luck down.”
Harsh words? Or hard truth?
Are there really such catastrophic events that could be diagnosed from a person’s destiny chart?
Well, although I am reluctant to say this, a person’s Bazi can indeed point out whether he or she will end up divorce, whether the affinity with the father is poor, the up and down cycles, acrimonious relationship with children and etc.
Nevertheless, in my opinion, we can approach it in a less intimidating manner and we should objectively discuss with our clients how to address those challenges in life – rather than just leaving it as it is.
Afterall, in this modern society of 21st century, we have more readily available resources to guide us and even tide us over any life crisis compare to the olden days.
When I was a teenager, I was a “victim” of such curt and cold remarks of some fortune tellers.
One may say this is sometimes the style of consult for most traditional practitioners.
However, it is often not easy to swallow and digest those opinions being dished out in such a less empathetic tone.
Worse, you are left hanging there to accept your fate.
I was not too happy. The rebel in me then decided I must pick up the knowledge of “suan ming” or fate calculation to find out if our fate is really cast-in-stone.
As I go deeper into Bazi study, I realised that, for example:
- “ke fu ming” for women sometimes simply means she is too strong headed and always not willing to give in to the husband whenever there is an argument. This is due to a strong presence of output stars. As you probably know, in olden days and in fact even until today, certain cultures still require women to be more submissive and obedient to their husband.
- “ke lao dou” implies the child is rebellious (in the eye of the parents) because the child often needs explanations and justifications whenever the parents forbid him or her from doing certain things. In traditional Chinese family, a child is not supposed to question the parents. This can be read from the children palace of a bazi chart.
- “sao ba xing” for women again can mean the bazi spouse palace contains undesirable stars like Hurting Officer or the lady has very strong mix of Direct Officer and 7 Killing stars. It is deemed that such women are promiscuous and can bring disharmony to the family.
You see, now you may start to realise that a same bazi chart can have different interpretations and if we could spend some time to explain to our clients, he or she can see things from a better perspective.
So, when the old master told to your face that you would die before age 59, that was because he saw a serious direct-clash coming to your bazi from your luck cycle that could lead to a fatal heart attack.
With medical advancement today, can you tell me what can you do to prevent it or treat it?
Of course, you know.